Is it healthy in general to just decide to spend the rest of your life alone. I was in the process of making myself over psychically so that I can get a man but now I've successfully did that and I get attention and I don't want to be bothered by anyone anymore.
First of all, never “make yourself over” for anyone but yourself. It may sound like a cliche but you have to be happy with yourself long before looking for approval from anyone else.
Secondly, there’s no point in striving to live alone if that’s not what you really want. The right person will come along. In the meantime, focus on making yourself into the person you want to be.
“Become friends with people who aren’t your age. Hang out with people whose first language isn’t the same as yours. Get to know someone who doesn’t come from your social class. This is how you see the world. This is how you grow.”—note to self (via rejoyces)
The rain came down around me and instead of scurrying for home I slowed down. I embraced the rain and opened my arms begging the lighting to strike me. SZA sung of warm winds and flowers and I mouthed along, hat off rain sliding down my face; enjoying the freedom of judging faces. Sometimes not having an umbrella isn’t so bad.