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We can be all “it’s her body” and all that good stuff until a baby is produced. When that happens, whether the father wanted it or not doesn’t seem to matter. I have to just deal with whatever she decides? Really? So if I’m against the abortion and she isn’t, I’m an asshole. If I’m for the abortion and she isn’t, I ain’t shit either. 

It’s a lose-lose situation if there’s no conversation.

And a conversation is still too much to ask? That makes no sense to me. It’s one thing if we were just two people having sex with no emotional attatchment. I’m talking about she and I have been together for two years type of shit.

She just goes and gets an abortion without telling me and that’s just cool? No fucks given? That’s fucking insane.

1. nubian-soul reblogged this from howtobeterrell
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3. assorted-dope-things reblogged this from strugglingtobeheard and added:

   I tried to explain the logic behind me saying that a more genuine title for the pro choice movement would be the pro...

4. ghdos reblogged this from strugglingtobeheard and added:

   I completely agree with you and that’s why I kept speaking for myself. I kept getting put in the same categories as...

5. strugglingtobeheard reblogged this from ghdos and added:

   I mean, I think a lot of people were trying to get to that point. Cause when we hear the same old apologists say, well...

6. ghdos reblogged this from strugglingtobeheard and added:

   And that’s all I was getting at. People were trying to make it seem as if I was saying “No, you’re going to have this...

7. strugglingtobeheard reblogged this from assorted-dope-things and added:

   This is fucking disgusting bullshit. I hope people see why when we dance this line, people like this come in, saying...

8. strugglingtobeheard reblogged this from ghdos and added:

   I was asking you. I mean, I never said we shouldn’t have these conversations. If it is a healthy relationship, I can’t...

9. assorted-dope-things reblogged this from howtobeterrell and added:

   There are many problems with the concept of “woman’s right to choose.” For one thing: The expression implies that the...

10. ghdos reblogged this from strugglingtobeheard and added:

    I don’t know if you’re addressing me per se but if she doesn’t want to have the baby, no I’m not going to force her to...

11. howtobeterrell reblogged this from strugglingtobeheard and added:

    Thank you! the children are always the last thing people think about ironically when they are having children lol

12. strugglingtobeheard reblogged this from howtobeterrell and added:

    My big question is this when I see these questions: Ok, you talk it out with your partner. You want the baby. They...

13. howtobeterrell reblogged this from ghdos and added:

    speak on this from the feminist work...two people are in a relationship neither of them...

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16. bludclotartattack said: There should be *at the very least* an FYI conversation. Even if you’re not in her life and she doesn’t want you in her or any child’s life, you should be at the very least informed.
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    I asked you before what you would say if YOUR woman came to you talking about...what...

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